Rate the following with:
1 – Not so much 2 – Most likely 3 – Definitely
___ I am not interested in ‘playing the field’ at this point in my life.
___ I think I am a good catch for someone – I have a lot to give.
___ I have enough experience with potential mates to know what I like and don’t like.
___ I am willing to curtail the wild nights out with friends in lieu of couple-friendly socializing.
___ I am mature enough to enter into a committed partnership with a life mate.
___ I have the skills to communicate, solve problems, and deal with conflict effectively.
___ I am willing to wait for the right person, instead of trying to make someone right for me.
___ I have thought about parenting and have a good idea about what’s right for me.
___ My past relationships are over – I learned from them and have no unfinished business.
___ I understand that committed relationships are based on mutual respect, shared interests and common values.
Add up your scores.
1-14: You are definitely not ready for a committed relationship.
15-23: You are probably ready, but may want to talk about your uncertainties.
24-30: You are ready to settle down with the right person!
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